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No, not all contested divorces go to trial.  While a contested divorce starts with disagreement and often involves legal maneuvering, the majority of contested divorce cases are actually settled before they ever reach a courtroom for a full trial. Couples may reach an agreement through negotiation, mediation, or at the pre-trial conference stage. Even if the initial stages are contentious, many couples find common ground and resolve their differences before a judge has to make a final decision

Contested divorces in South Africa can vary significantly in length, typically taking anywhere from several months to several years to finalize.  The timeline depends on several key factors:

  • Complexity of the Case The more issues in dispute (such as asset division, child custody, or spousal maintenance), the longer the process is likely to take.
  • Court Scheduling Court backlogs and the availability of court dates can significantly impact the timeline. High Courts, in particular, may have longer waiting periods.
  • Negotiation and Settlement Even in contested divorces, many cases are resolved through negotiation and settlement before reaching trial. The willingness of both parties to compromise can shorten the process.
  • Evidence Gathering Gathering necessary evidence, which might include financial audits, valuations, or expert witness testimony, can also contribute to the overall timeframe.

Before the trial, the court may require the parties to attend pretrial conferences to explore settlement options and narrow down the issues in dispute. Mediation may also be suggested to resolve disagreements outside of court
 

To prepare for a contested divorce in South Africa, you should consult a family law attorney, gather all relevant documentation regarding your assets, liabilities, and financial records, understand your matrimonial regime, and be prepared to discuss issues like child custody, property division, and spousal maintenance, as a contested divorce involves legal proceedings where a court will decide these disputed matters. 

After the trial, the court issues a final divorce decree that resolves all outstanding matters and legally dissolves the marriage.

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Contested Divorce

Facing a divorce?  It's an emotionally challenging time, requiring you to navigate complex decisions with long-term consequences.  While the South African divorce process is generally straightforward, the financial and emotional impact, particularly when dealt with in the High Court, can be significant.  At Aucamp Attorneys, our experienced divorce lawyers are dedicated to guiding you through this difficult period and working towards the best possible outcome for your future.

What is as Contested Divorce?

A contested divorce in South Africa arises when the parties disagree on fundamental aspects of ending their marriage.  These disagreements can range from whether the marriage should end at all, to disputes over issues concerning children (care, contact, and maintenance), and financial matters (asset division and spousal maintenance).  While South Africa operates on a "no-fault" divorce system, the reasons for the breakdown of the marriage can still be relevant.  Contested divorces, often acrimonious, necessitate greater court involvement, typically including the exchange of formal legal documents (pleadings), attempts at out-of-court settlement through negotiation and mediation, court hearings where evidence and arguments are presented, and a final court order resolving all contested matters.  These divorces are generally more time-consuming, expensive, and emotionally taxing, potentially taking anywhere from three months to several years to finalize.

Contested Divorce What to Expect

A contested divorce arises when you and your spouse can't agree on the terms of your separation.  While a civil, uncontested divorce is ideal, it's wise to understand the complexities of a contested divorce, even if you anticipate an amicable split.  Knowing what to expect can help you prepare and potentially avoid a costly and emotionally draining court battle.  Most contested divorce cases are settled before trial, often because of the complicated nature of the process.

The Contested Divorce Process:

A contested divorce involves several key stages

  1. Pleadings - Formal legal documents are exchanged between the parties, outlining the claims and defenses. This includes the initial summons, particulars of claim, notice of defense, plea, counterclaim, and plea to counterclaim.  These documents must adhere to specific rules regarding content and format.
  2. Application for and Set Down of Trial Date -  One party applies for a trial date, which the court then allocates.  The time from start to finish can vary, potentially taking up to three years in the High Court and a shorter period in the regional magistrate’s court.
  3. Discovery of Documents -  Both parties are legally obligated to disclose relevant documents (e.g., bank statements, financial records) they intend to use in court. This process often uncovers hidden assets and is a critical part of preparing for trial.  Subpoenas can be issued to financial institutions to obtain documents not voluntarily provided.
  4. Further Discovery and Particulars - If one party believes the other is withholding information, they can request further discovery.  They can also request further particulars, which are specific details needed to prepare for trial.
  5. Pre-Trial Conference -  The court may call a pre-trial conference to explore the possibility of settlement and narrow the issues for trial.
  6. Trial -  If no settlement is reached, the case proceeds to trial.  Both parties present evidence, including witness testimony.
  7. Judgment - The court makes a final decision, which may include orders related to the divorce itself, division of assets, child custody, and support.

Key Aspects of the Process:

  • Pleadings - These documents form the basis of the case, outlining each party's claims and defenses. They must be accurate and comply with specific rules.
  • Summons - This document initiates the divorce proceedings and notifies the other party of the legal action. It must contain specific information and be served personally by the sheriff.
  • Plea - The defendant's response to the summons, outlining their defense.
  • Discovery -  This crucial stage involves the exchange of relevant documents. Failure to disclose documents can have serious consequences at trial.
  • Trial -  A formal court hearing where both sides present their case.
  • Judgment - The court's final decision, legally dissolving the marriage and addressing related issues.
  • Costs - The court will determine who is responsible for legal fees, although this isn't always the "winning" party.

The Importance of Settlement:

The closer you get to trial, the more important it becomes to consider settlement. Trials are expensive, time-consuming, and emotionally taxing for everyone involved, especially children.  Settlement allows you to maintain some control over the outcome, rather than leaving decisions in the hands of a judge.

Legal Representation:

Navigating a contested divorce is complex.  It's crucial to have experienced legal representation to protect your rights and interests throughout the process.  Aucamp Attorneys can provide the guidance and support you need during this challenging time.

Facing a Contested Divorce?  Understanding the Potential Benefits

Let's be honest, no one wants a contested divorce.  The ideal is always a smooth, uncontested process. But life – and divorce – isn't always ideal.  If you're facing a situation where your spouse is unwilling to cooperate, where fair agreements seem impossible, or where your financial future is at stake, a contested divorce may be your strongest path forward.

While it’s true a contested divorce involves court and legal processes, it's important to understand that this isn't necessarily a negative.  In fact, in many situations, engaging in a contested divorce can unlock significant benefits and ultimately lead to a more just and secure outcome for you.

Why a Contested Divorce Can Be Advantageous

  • Dedicated Legal Representation - Your Advocate in a Complex Process: In a contested divorce, you gain a powerful ally: your own experienced attorney. They are solely focused on protecting your interests, providing expert legal guidance and strong advocacy throughout the entire court process.
  • Comprehensive Examination of All Issues - No Stone Unturned: Complex divorces require in-depth analysis. A contested divorce provides the legal structure to meticulously examine all facets of your case, whether it's intricate finances, business ownership, or challenging child arrangements. This thoroughness ensures no detail is missed and all aspects are addressed fairly.
  • Potential for a More Favorable Financial Settlement - Achieving True Fairness: If you feel you're being offered less than you deserve, a contested divorce empowers you to have a judge review your case. This impartial assessment can often lead to a more equitable financial outcome, ensuring you receive your rightful share of marital assets.
  • Uncovering Hidden Assets: Ensuring Financial Transparency - Concerned about hidden accounts or undisclosed assets? A contested divorce allows your legal team to use formal legal tools to investigate and uncover any concealed assets, guaranteeing financial transparency and a fairer division of the marital estate.

If you're facing a contested divorce, know that it's not the end of the world – and in fact, it might be the key to securing a fair and just outcome.  At Aucamp Attorneys, we are here to guide you through every step of the contested divorce process, providing the strong legal representation you need to protect your rights and achieve the best possible results.

Understanding Child Living Arrangements During Contested Divorce in South Africa

During a contested divorce in South Africa, before a judge makes a final decision on custody (care and contact) arrangements, the children's living arrangements are determined by a few possibilities, generally starting with the status quo and potentially shifting through interim court orders.

1. The Status Quo (Initial Situation) - Generally, children remain in their existing living situation. This means they usually stay in the home they were living in before the divorce proceedings began, and often with the parent who has been their primary caregiver.
South African courts tend to prefer maintaining stability for children during this turbulent time. Disrupting their living arrangements unnecessarily can be seen as detrimental to their well-being.
This is not a legal rule, but rather a common starting point and a practical consideration. It's often seen as less disruptive to leave things as they are initially.


2. Interim Custody/Care and Contact Arrangements (Applications to Court) - Either parent can apply to the court for an interim order regarding care and contact while the divorce proceedings are ongoing. This is common in contested divorces where parents disagree about where the children should live and who should have primary care.

Section 6(5) of the Children's Act provides the legal basis for these interim orders. It allows the court to make decisions about

  • Care: Who will have primary care (formerly "custody") of the children on a day-to-day basis.
  • Contact: What contact the non-primary care parent will have with the children (visitation schedule, including weekends, holidays, etc.).
  • Residence: Where the children will live.
  • Guardianship: While less common to change guardianship interim, decisions related to exercising parental responsibilities and rights can be addressed.

How to get an Interim Order

  • Application to Court - A parent's attorney will need to bring an urgent application to the court.
  • Supporting Affidavit - This application is supported by an affidavit outlining why the parent believes the current arrangements are not in the best interests of the child and what interim arrangements they are proposing.
  • Responding Affidavit - The other parent will have an opportunity to respond and file their own affidavit outlining their views.
  • Court Hearing - Depending on the urgency and complexity, the matter might be heard in court relatively quickly. The judge will consider both sides and make an interim order.


3. Factors the Court Considers for Interim Orders - When deciding on interim care and contact, the court's paramount concern will always be the best interests of the child.  Factors the court will consider include:

  • The status quo - As mentioned, maintaining stability is often favored unless the status quo is demonstrably harmful to the child.
  • The child's wishes (depending on their age and maturity) - Older children's opinions will be given more weight.
  • Each parent's ability to provide care and support - This includes emotional support, financial stability, a suitable home environment, and their ability to prioritize the child's needs.
  • The relationship between the child and each parent - The court will consider the existing bond and attachment.
  • Any history of abuse, neglect, or substance abuse - These are critical factors that would heavily influence decisions regarding care and contact.
  • Practical considerations - Such as proximity to schools, support networks, and each parent's work schedule.

Interim orders are temporary. These arrangements are only in place for the duration of the divorce proceedings, until a final parenting plan or court order is issued as part of the divorce decree.
Interim orders are often a reflection of what the final order might look like, but not always. While interim orders can give an indication of the court's thinking, the final decision can still be different after all evidence and arguments have been presented in the full divorce proceedings. Initially, children usually remain in their existing home situation. However, either parent can apply to the court for an interim order to change these arrangements during the contested divorce process. The court will prioritize the child's best interests when making these temporary decisions. It's essential to seek legal advice from a family law attorney in South Africa to understand your rights and options in your specific situation.

Let Us Help You.  Aucamp Attorneys provides expert guidance and support to make your uncontested divorce process as smooth as possible.  Contact us for a confidential discussion.