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While a Cohabitation Agreement can express the parties’ intentions regarding children, it cannot override the provisions of the Children’s Act 38 of 2005. Courts prioritize the child’s best interests, and any agreements must align with this principle.
 

Yes, absolutely. South African law clearly states that both biological parents have a legal duty to maintain their children, regardless of whether they are married, unmarried, or cohabiting. This responsibility is enshrined in the Children's Act and the Maintenance Act.
 

Yes, in principle, both parents share the responsibility for child maintenance. The Maintenance Court will assess each parent's income, financial resources, and ability to contribute, and then apportion the maintenance obligation fairly between them, according to the child's needs.

Child maintenance is intended to cover a child's reasonable needs. This typically includes:

  • Basic living expenses: Food, clothing, accommodation.
  • Education: School fees, uniforms, stationery, extramural activities.
  • Healthcare: Medical aid contributions, medical and dental expenses, medication.
  • Childcare: Creche or after-school care if applicable.
  • Other needs: Depending on circumstances, it can also include reasonable extras for the child's well-being and development.

The primary laws are the Children's Act 38 of 2005, which emphasizes the best interests of the child and parental responsibilities, and the Maintenance Act 99 of 1998, which provides the legal framework for claiming and enforcing maintenance, including for children of cohabiting parents.

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Cohabitation and Child Maintenance 

What this means ... 

In South Africa, whether you are married, unmarried, or cohabiting, both parents have a legal responsibility to financially support their children.  "Cohabitation and Child Maintenance" simply means addressing the financial needs of children born to parents who are living together but are not married.

It's crucial to understand that the rights and needs of your children are paramount, and the law ensures that both parents contribute to their upbringing, regardless of their relationship status.  At Aucamp Attorneys, we help cohabiting parents understand their obligations and ensure fair and legally sound child maintenance arrangements are in place, prioritizing the best interests of your children.

The Children's Act:  Your Children's Rights Come First, Whether You're Married or Cohabiting

When children are part of your cohabiting relationship, South African law, specifically the Children's Act 38 of 2005, takes center stage. This Act is clear: the best interests of the child are always the top priority in all matters concerning them.  For cohabiting parents, this means understanding the following key points:

  • Equal Parental Rights and Responsibilities Both biological parents automatically have the same rights and responsibilities towards their child, regardless of whether they are married or living together. This includes care, contact, guardianship, and maintenance.
  • Unwavering Maintenance Obligations The legal duty to financially support your child is not tied to marriage. As the Maintenance Act emphasizes, both parents are responsible for child maintenance, and this responsibility exists whether the child is born within or outside of marriage, or from any previous relationship.
  • Child-Focused Custody and Access Decisions When decisions about where a child lives and how each parent spends time with them (custody and access) are made, the child's best interests are the deciding factor, not the parents' marital status.

While a Cohabitation Agreement can outline your intentions regarding your children, it’s crucial to remember that no agreement between parents can override the child protection provisions of the Children's Act.  Therefore, in addition to a Cohabitation Agreement, you may need separate, legally sound parenting plans or agreements to specifically address the practical arrangements for your children, always keeping their best interests at heart.

Child Maintenance for Cohabiting Parents in South Africa:  A Straightforward Process with Legal Guidance

Ensuring your child's financial needs are met is paramount, regardless of your relationship status with the other parent.  In South Africa, cohabiting parents have the same legal duty to maintain their children as married or divorced parents.  If you are cohabiting and need to establish or enforce child maintenance, Aucamp Attorneys can guide you through the process, making it as smooth and effective as possible, always prioritizing your child's best interests.

Steps to Request Child Maintenance (for Cohabiting Parents)

1.  Initial Consultation with Aucamp Attorneys

  • Overview  The first step is to contact Aucamp Attorneys for a confidential consultation.  This allows us to understand your specific situation, assess your needs, and explain your rights and the child maintenance process in detail.
  • Aucamp Attorneys' Role  We will listen to your circumstances, provide preliminary legal advice, and outline the best course of action tailored to your family.

2.  Gathering Necessary Information and Documentation

  •  Overview To proceed with a maintenance claim, certain information is essential. This includes details about both parents' income, expenses, assets, and liabilities, as well as the child's needs and expenses (school fees, medical costs, living costs etc.).
  • Aucamp Attorneys' Role  We will provide you with a comprehensive checklist of required documents and guide you on how to gather this information efficiently.

3.  Attempting Mediation and Negotiation (Optional but Recommended)

  • Overview Before resorting to court, we often attempt to resolve maintenance matters through mediation or negotiation with the other parent. This can be a more amicable, cost-effective, and faster approach to reaching a mutually acceptable maintenance agreement.
  • Aucamp Attorneys' Role We can facilitate communication with the other parent, represent you in mediation sessions, and help negotiate a fair and legally sound maintenance agreement.

4.  Formal Application to the Maintenance Court

  • Overview If mediation or negotiation is unsuccessful, or not appropriate in your situation, the next step is to lodge a formal maintenance application at the Maintenance Court in your area. This involves completing the necessary forms and submitting supporting documentation.
  • Aucamp Attorneys' Role  We will expertly prepare and file your maintenance application with the court, ensuring all legal requirements are met and your case is presented effectively. We will handle all court processes on your behalf.

5.  Maintenance Court Hearing and Order 

  • Overview Once the application is lodged, the Maintenance Court will schedule a hearing. Both parents will have the opportunity to present their case, provide evidence of income and expenses, and argue for a fair maintenance order. The Maintenance Court Magistrate will then make a determination based on the child's needs and both parents' financial means.
  • Aucamp Attorneys' Role  We will provide strong legal representation at the Maintenance Court hearing.  We will present your case persuasively, cross-examine the other parent if necessary, and advocate for a maintenance order that is fair and in your child's best interests. We will ensure your voice is heard and your rights are protected throughout the court process.

Ongoing Support and Enforcement

Even after a Maintenance Order is granted, circumstances can change.  Aucamp Attorneys can also assist with:

  • Amendment of Maintenance Orders If income or needs change.
  • Enforcement of Maintenance OrdersIf the other parent fails to pay.

Navigating child maintenance as cohabiting parents doesn't have to be daunting.  Aucamp Attorneys provides the expert legal assistance you need to understand your rights, navigate the legal process, and secure the financial support your child deserves. Contact us today to start the process with confidence.